Dear Self, It’s Okay Not to Obsess
5 min readSep 4, 2019
There’s this idea that the things that trigger you about the people around you tend to serve as a mirror for your own personal challenges and deficiencies.
I have a friend who will often get fixated on whatever new or exciting venture grabs her attention. She becomes obsessed, dreaming up all kinds of elaborate scenarios based on her newfound passion, until suddenly — she’s on to something new.